Introduction
Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Raheem
Allah ke naam se shuru, jo nihayat meharban aur raheem hai.
Hamd o Sana Allah ke liye hai. Hum usi ki tareef karte hain aur usi se madad aur maafi talab karte hain. Hum Allah ki panah maangte hain apne nafs ke shar aur apne aamal ke buray asraat se. Jise Allah hidayat de, usay koi gumrah nahi kar sakta, aur jise Allah gumrah kar de, usay koi hidayat nahi de sakta. Main gawahi deta hoon ke Allah ke siwa koi maabood nahi, woh akela hai, uska koi shareek nahi. Aur main gawahi deta hoon ke Muhammad ﷺ Allah ke bande aur Rasool hain.
Ghar ko durust karna aur usay behtareen tareeqe se chalana har Musalman mard aur aurat ke liye ek azeem zimmedari aur amaanat hai. Allah Ta’ala ne humein is zimmedari ko uske ahkaam ke mutabiq anjam dene ka hukum diya hai. Har ghar ko Allah ki hidayat ke roshni mein chalana zaroori hai, aur is ka ek tareeqa yeh hai ke ghar ko burai aur shar se pak kiya jaye.
Is maqaalay ka maqsad kuch un buraiyon aur haraam cheezon ko samajh lana hai jo kai gharo mein hoti hain aur jo Musalman ummat ke aglay naslon ke liye tabahi ka sabab ban sakti hain. Yeh ek naseehat hai har sachai ka talib insaan ke liye jo apne ghar ko behtareen banane ke liye tareeqay talash kar raha hai, taki woh Allah ke Rasool ﷺ ke is hukm par amal kar sakein:
“Tum mein se jo koi burai dekhe, to usay apne haath se badal de [yani amal ke zariye], agar na kar sake to apni zubaan se [yani naseehat ke zariye], aur agar yeh bhi mumkin na ho to apne dil se [yani us burai ko ghalat samajhte hue]. Aur yeh imaan ka sabse kamzor darja hai.”
(Saheeh Muslim, 1/69)
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Main Allah se dua karta hoon, jo Nihayat Karam Wala hai, Arsh-e-Azeem ka Malik hai, ke woh mere Musalman bhaiyon aur behnon ko is maqaalay aur meri pichli kitaab ke zariye faida pohnchaye. Beshak Allah hi hidayat dene wala hai aur sirat-e-mustaqeem ki taraf le jane wala hai.